If you've never asked yourself the question “Who Do I Want To Be?”, chances are you haven't realised how much is riding on it.
3 REASONS WHY GOAL FULFILMENT RELIES ON WHO YOU WANT TO BE
1 - WHO AM I?
What kind of person are you and who do you want to become? Not materially, but as a human being. The biggest oversight people make when deciding what will bring them fulfilment in their life is this...
THEY PUT THEIR GOALS AHEAD OF WHO THEY WANT TO BE
2 - WHAT AM I REFLECTING?
The person you are now is either attracting or hindering the people, situations and opportunities you want to attract in your life.
Example: If who you're being is hindering you, it can show up as difficulty maintaining a consistent connection with a person/people that matter.
3 - WHERE DO I NEED SELF-GROWTH?
If you aren't clear about who you are and who you aspire to be, how will you know what you want will bring you the happiness, satisfaction and fulfilment you desire? You won't know.
EVERYTHING WE BRING INTO OUR LIFE EXPERIENCE REFLECTS BACK TO US; WHO WE ARE, ON THE UPSIDE AND THE DOWNSIDE.
WORK ON YOU
Get clear (on paper) about who you are and who you want to be. And work towards that aspiration. Hang out with people that reflect those attributes and detox your life from those that don't. Then challenge yourself to change every day in ways that make you proud.
When you know who you are and who you want to be, the risk is replaced with decision-making certainty.